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Give yourself a moment to assess your options and truly recognize what it is that you want out of a scenario. This pause will prevent you from saying yes out of knee-jerk habit. A pause can last enough time for a deep breath, or you can request some time to think about it or to check in with your schedule.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Reframe<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take yourself out of the situation and think objectively for a moment. Feel pressured to make a decision? Don\u2019t let this stress guide your answer. Take out all the emotional parts to the equation and answer as you would advise another friend to answer.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Recognize your goals<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dedication to a goal is an incredible motivator. Use your imagination and stir up all sorts of daydreams for your goal. What does it look like? What does it <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feel<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> like? 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