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Now that you\u2019ve acknowledged your fear, allow it to be relieved by the fact that this is not your debt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, when you love someone and see a future with that person, you may feel like it is your debt — either because you want to help your partner get through it or because you plan to get married someday soon. But until that day comes, you are not responsible for any of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner likely could use your emotional support in getting through it. Have you been there before? If so, maybe you can help answer questions your partner may have. Maybe you\u2019ve never been there before. You still can be there for your partner by listening to him or her and maybe even giving a fresh perspective on the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Walk in Your Partner\u2019s Shoes<\/b><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s easy to judge someone who has debt, even if we have it ourselves. But the quickest way to suspend judgement is to walk in that person\u2019s shoes. Talk to your partner about how he or she got into debt. Maybe the bulk of it is student loans because his or her family couldn\u2019t afford to help out with college tuition. Or, it could have been credit card debt that accumulated during a time of economic struggle. Then, there\u2019s always the possibility that your partner simply made poor spending choices and is now paying the price.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how it started, try to walk in your partner\u2019s shoes as he or she tells you how it happened and how he or she is feeling now. Debt can cause a roller coaster of emotions from fear and anxiety to frustration and shame.<\/span><\/p>\n

Talk Strategy<\/b><\/h2>\n

Don\u2019t assume your partner doesn\u2019t have a plan to get out of debt — ask first. If your partner does have a plan, then you two can still talk about it and see if it can be improved upon. If your partner is happy with the plan and the progress, then let it alone. Now all you have to do is be a mental and emotional support system.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner doesn\u2019t have a plan, don\u2019t get upset. Maybe all he or she needed was someone to talk to about this. Now you two can really talk strategy together. What kind of debt is it and which should your partner pay off first? Is there a way your partner can earn extra money on the side or even search for a career that will pay more?<\/span><\/p>\n

See How This Relates to Your Relationship<\/b><\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve now hopefully come to understand how your partner feels and talked about his or her strategy to get out of debt. The next step is to evaluate what this means for your relationship right now. Think about the plans you\u2019ve made. Were you going to take a vacation together soon? Does this still make sense to do right now? What if you were going to relocate to a different city, buy a house, or get married?<\/span><\/p>\n

Come to an agreement on how these goals look now that you know about the debt and how long it will take to pay it off. Maybe you want to continue on the same time frame for your goals or maybe you think it\u2019s best to put some of them on hold. Just make sure that the two of you are on the same page so neither one of you ends up feeling resentful.<\/span><\/p>\n

Set It and Forget It<\/b><\/h2>\n

This one is going to sound much easier than it will be to do. Now that you\u2019ve come to a mutual understanding about the debt and payoff strategies, don\u2019t let this hang over your head like a black cloud. You\u2019ve done all you can at this point and the most important thing moving forward is that you simply allow your relationship to move forward. Be open to discussions about it, but don\u2019t let it dominate every conversation you two have.<\/span><\/p>\n

Debt is scary, frustrating, and can slow down and even prevent goals and desires. If you\u2019re debt-free and you just found out that your significant other is carrying debt, it\u2019s natural to feel overwhelmed. However, if you follow these steps, then you two can come together and realize that debt is just another part of life that many people have to work through.<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s important isn\u2019t the problems you encounter in your relationship — it\u2019s how you handle them together. So be honest with your significant other about how you feel.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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